There is an African saying: the bigger the heart, the more someone tries to hide it. While some men react to their emotional/sensitive side a little super sensitively, most men react in a distant/aggressive/dominant way to cover up their more gentle side.
By simply approaching things differently you can get to the gentle side of your man:
- 1. Speak up, he can’t read your mind
Acting like he should know what you are thinking or feeling (if he really loves you) is a waste of a lot of time. You only end up getting more worked up because you think he is intentionally “ignoring” you. The truth of the matter is most men are not that good at “reading” women and even those who think they can often get it wrong. So stop knocking furniture around, banging utensils or screaming at the kids and just speakup. Read more